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Disaster In the Stock Market! Sky Falling! Where is the Joy in This?

Monday, September 29th, 2008
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DISASTER IN THE STOCK MARKET!!!

Todays’ news of financial upheaval gives me an opportunity to deal with a question that is often asked by folks who read Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps.

That is… How can one maintain a center when the stock market is falling like a rock, when folks are losing jobs and their houses, when all of the experts are projecting a grim future at best and the world just looks crazy?

Even though I don’t watch television I am completely aware of the situations that are developing in the news and that are being discussed ad infinitum by the experts. I listen to just enough to get a general overview of the situation and how it relates to the “big picture”. Then I get back to my center.

How can I be joyous in these times?

Focus on The Big Picture

I start by relating to the big picture.

When I watch all of this high drama going on the stage of media and mass consciousness I do my best to remain a bit detached, like I’m watching a play. All of grinding of teeth, hair-tearing and grandiose posturing, the bellowing and the thundering, reminds me of Shakespeare. Like those plays it is all high drama, vivid characters and seems like every one’s fate and life is depending on the outcome.

The reason I am able to see it as a dramatic play is by focusing on the big picture.

The big picture is that nations and politics are constantly going through change and upheaval. This most likely been true since the first group of cave people tried to agree on something.

What if the Worst Happens?

Even if the worst predictions are true, we are simply facing what many other nations have faced in the last 30 years in the world. Japan, Sweden, Norway, and many other countries have had huge real estate bubbles pop. similar to our situation. In each case it decimated their banking system. They all pulled out of decline and became prosperous afterwards.

Many are comparing this to the Great Depression. The Great Depression was at its worst in about 1932. Less than 10 years from the worst part of the Depression our country was strong enough and vibrant enough to help save the world in World War II, followed by decades of prosperity.

Again it is always important to look at the big picture rather than get wrapped up in what some commentator or politician is bellowing at you at the moment. He or she is simply doing their job by trying desperately to get your attention and your emotions all fired up. That is their job – to entertain and sell products or idealogies, bless them, and they are very good at it.

Mad Max meets Soylent Green and the Terminator!

I’ve had friends call and express worry about a police state on the horizon, no food to eat, no water to drink and two thirds of the people in the world being wiped out. So I know how extreme a lot of the stories that are being passed around sound. Whew… like Mad Max, Soylent Green and the Terminator rolled into one.

I personally don’t believe any of those things will happen.

Human beings are much better than that. We will adjust and we will prosper.

Am I Just a Pollyanna?

Lest you think I am totally “Pollyanna” or an unrealistic fool about this, many great minds agree the future is very bright due to a “wild card”.

That “wild card” is the mindset of the younger generation.

I’m reading a new book by the great pollster Zogby. He doesn’t guess about the future and what folks think – he polls folks and bases his book on what tens of thousands of people are actually saying.

The book is called “The Way We Will Be”.

It’s based on thousands of polls he has taken in the last few years regarding the attitudes of all age groups in America.

What Zogby’s Polls Say…

Zogby’s book is shocking in its uplifting outlook of the future. No doom and gloom here. It is an extremely positive book.

He goes into great detail about how young people have a completely different mindset.

They see the world as one neighborhood. They see the fact that there are dozens of different religions as a beautiful thing. They are networked and have friends in every corner of the planet. These friends of different races and beliefs are their peer group.

When I was young my peer group was a bunch of white Irish Catholics. I’m old enough to have grown up in an area where neighborhoods were made up of primarily one ethnic/religious group.

OK I’m not talking 100 years ago folks. I’m not that old yet. It was the San Fernando Valley in LA in the late 50s and 1960s.

So I grew up in an atmosphere where anyone that was different than us was “strange”. It was easy to build up stereotypes because you never really ran into other ethnic groups in school or at social activities.

I imagine most of our decision makers and captains of industry had a somewhat similar peer group experience to mine. In the 1960s even long distance phone calls were quite rare and expensive – a true luxury. Jet airline travel had just started and was also rare.

Fast forward to 2008…

A New World of Instant Communication and International Empathy

The young people today are living in a totally different world. They are connected through text messaging, social networking sites, video, audio, and every other sort of multimedia imaginable.

It is not unusual for a young person to have a peer group composed of people from Japan, Afghanistan, Iraq and Iran, Great Britain, France, Canada, Indonesia, Italy, and many other countries as well as it here in the US.

Because of this fact, when they hear older people and media drawing stereotypes and claiming that one particular race or religion is less worthy than another, they know there is no truth to this.

These “other races who have strange religions” are their friends. They chat with these people every day. They see them joke and laugh and cry in their videos, just like they do. They share the pain of growth and the insecurity of the teenage mindset, which is universal. These close friends are every color of the rainbow and are Buddhist, Muslim, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Christian, and even Wicca and Pagan and other beliefs.

On some of these social media services these international friends chat with each other every 5 to 15 minutes. They follow each other’s lives in minute detail. They chat all day and night with each other about everything from music and philosophy to what stores they shop to what brand of coffee or tea they enjoy.

They Can’t Understand The Vicious Political Differences

These young people have a hard time understanding all of the vicious political differences in the world. They know the world is a tiny place. A huge percentage of them of travel to other countries before they are 16 years old.

Even if a young person hasn’t been out of the USA they have many friends who have traveled and come back and tell them the truth about other countries and other people.

That truth is people all over the world are very similar to you. We all want to be happy and we all want to have the freedom to make our own choices. We all love children and we all want to make the world a better place for them. We all want the right to worship the Creator in the way that resonates with our inner truth. We all want clean water, clean air and opportunities to learn new skills and better ourselves.

Unfortunately politicians, war profiteers and hate mongers get in the way of this truth. But it won’t keep working much longer. Those who want to continue hate and intolerance use ignorance to sway minds. This “ignorance is truth” approach can work on fairly well on folks who are raised, as I was, isolated from other races and beliefs.

The Lie That We Are Different

Luckily this is “ignorance” the young are losing. The lie that somehow we are all different and out to get each other has stopped having much effect on many of them.

They see the truth. They know their international peer group of friends personally. They chat every day. So these young minds trust their peer group way more than strangers with suspect motives such as talking heads on TV and radio.

These young people are the future. We are so lucky for that.

Zogby’s polls show that they are determined to change this world into a better place. They are willing to do the work that is necessary.

They aren’t interested in accumulating a bunch of material possessions to define who they are. They are not going to be defined by status. They aren’t interested in dictating that others believe in the same things they believe in. They desire to share and be part of a world community.

His polls show that they not only want to contribute to the world, they are already rolling up their sleaves and getting to work on it. They use less resources. They embrace new energy technologies. They want to clean up the air and they want to fix the climate.

A Dinosaur Looking Forward

They have my awe, admiration and respect. At 57 I am a dinosaur compared to the “32 and under” group Zogby focuses on. But this dinosaur feels full of joy and gratitude as he looks to the future and sees it in the sparking bright eyes of the enthusiastic young people.

I don’t see the future in the panic stricken eyes, mindless jabbering and finger pointing of politicians and Wall Street bankers. There I see dinosaurs who, unlike this one, refuse to admit they are not the future. I gaze amazed as they continue fighting over how to extend the “Decades of the Dinosaurs” a while longer as they sink in the tar pits of inevitable change.

So now you know the future I see. A beautiful future. A future I speak of on the very last page of Unstoppable Joy!

Exciting Drama and Scary Monsters

Like us all I see the frightening momentary drama that is going on now. Unlike most I realize that it is just a tiny part of the big picture. Sure I find it exciting, just like I find a horror movie exciting.

I don’t worry about the monster jumping out and eating me after the movie is done.  And I don’t worry about the monster of the “sky is falling” drama in front of us destroying my joy and peace. My joy and peace is as solid as the rock of Gibraltar and these stormy seas can pound it all they like. I am master and commander of my mind, no one else.

I will do my part in this drama by writing about and visualizing this wonderful new world that the young people are going to bring to us.

Rough Times Ahead?

Perhaps I won’t be here to live in this wonderful world I see shining bright in my mind. Perhaps there will be very rough times before it comes. No matter.

I’m still going to focus my energy and remaining time bringing as much joy to the world as I can. According to Zogby, Joy and personal fulfillment are a big part of what the young seek and want to bring into our world.

Whether I’m around to see this brave new world or not, I am gonna do my part. I’ll do what I can to help these young people create the joyous, embracing, multi cultured new World they are ushering in.

They know it’s coming. I know it’s coming.

Now it’s your turn.

What future do you want to believe in and help create?

A joyous new world of tolerance, support, generosity and forgiveness?

A dark new world of scarcity and desperation?

We get to choose the future together. What we see in our collective mind is what will transpire. Our minds control the creative energy of the constantly expanding universe.

So decide right now. Tomorrow won’t wait.

You are master and commander of your own mind.

What destination will you choose as you chart the course for the mighty ship of your hopes, dreams and imagination? To a sunny tropical paradise full of love and laughter or to stormy and dreary Cape Fear?

Always remember how powerful your thoughts are before you decide which direction you want to sail that ship. Then go forward with that unstoppable power of belief filling your sails and boldly travel across the seas of uncertainty to the future. A future you desire for yourself and for the generations to come.

Joy, Abundance and all the blessings in the world

Ed Osworth

The Joy Professor
Unstoppablejoy.com

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Man Who Dreams of Being Buzz Lightyear Crosses English Channel on Rocket Wings at 100+ MPH!

Saturday, September 27th, 2008

Ed Here.

Don’t EVER tell yourself that you can’t make your dreams come true.

Or that your dream is to “too far out” to “too crazy”  “too ambitious” or worse yet, “too unrealistic”.

To that I say Baloney!

There is no dream that cannot come true in one form or another if you truly believe in it.

Want Proof – Take a gander at this guy!

Who does that suit remind you of?

I come in peace. Picture is From TimesOnline Blog

The above photo is of guy from Switzerland named Yves who had the most impracticable dream imaginable.

Yves dreamed of being able to fly like Buzz Lightyear – the cartoon character in Toy Story.

Imagine how his family, co worker and friends probably reacted when he talked about his dream.

“You wanna do WHAT?”

I bet whatever accomplishment you may be dreaming of bringing to this planet is not half as as crazy as that.

But Yves was consumed by this insane dream.

Talk about unrealistic.

He didn’t give up on that dream. He fixed it in his mind. He visualized himself soaring through the air – like an Eagle – free and unencumbered zooming along on rocket powered wings.

We all have such “crazy” dreams. For most they get pushed away by far more practical thoughts. I mean, come on. Rocket wings? Get real.

Instead of following the masses and allowing himself to believe that dream was out of reach – he went to work. He spent years developing and testing a set of rocket powered wings.

While working on this ridiculous quest he crashed. He got burned.

Unfazed, like the scarred and battered Don Quixote from “The Man of La Mancha” he pushed forward through the disappointments and failed tests and prototypes as he focused on fulfilling his impossible dream.

Today is August 26th, 2008 a great day in the history of fulfilled dreams.

Because today that crazy dreamer flew over the English Channel at over 100 MPH using his rocket powered wings!

To quote eyewitness Charles Bremner from the “Times Online” Blog

“Yves Rossy had just leaped from the safety of his jump plane. Following behind, we watched in awe as “Fusionman” extended the eight foot wings strapped to his back, ending his free-fall and swooped into level flight.

“The Times’ Cessna 182 was part of the little squadron of two helicopters and two planes that escorted Rossy as he made history, zooming like Buzz Lightyear, the spaceman of Toy Story, out into the wide blue yonder.”

Yeah, Yves – you just made our day here on planet earth. Congratulations!

The crazy dreamer is now waving at the masses from high in the sky as he flies like a majestic eagle. We look back up in amazement, humbled by the man who dared to take his dream to completion.

Imagine that you met Yves back years ago when he was just starting out. You hit it off and and you share a drink and talk. He looks deep into your eyes and tells you that he will devote his life to a quest to fly like Buzz Lightyear.

He asks “What do you think?”

Would you have said “Go for it”?

Or perhaps said “I don’t know…maybe you should pursue a more realistic goal”?

Are you giving yourself that same feedback about your crazy dreams?

Unless you are saying “Go for it” to your crazy dream you might be keeping your personal “Eagle of achievement and freedom” stuffed in a tiny cage forever.

If you want to soar through the clouds of greatness like Yves, that Eagle must be free.

What will grow your own greatness? It could be striving for noble deeds or maybe just following an intense desire to have the ability of your favorite cartoon character.

Yves is proof that you never know where that seed of genius and greatness is hiding in you.

It might be even be knocking at your door right now disguised as something familiar …

Like Buzz Lightyear!

BTW: You think maybe inside that helmet Yves was joyously exclaiming to no one in particular…

“TO INFINITY AND BEYOND!”   ?

WAY TO GO YVES – THANKS FOR THE WALLOP OF JOY!!

Ed Osworth
The Joy Professor
Author of “Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps”
Available overnight from Amazon and at all major booksellers.


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Can One Find The Joy in Personal Tragedy? On The Loss of A Pet.

Tuesday, September 23rd, 2008

I get asked this a lot.

And I am the first to admit that it is VERY difficult to maintain a positive and joyous attitude when a life upheaval throws a major curve ball in your direction.

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simpler Steps.

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps.

Rather than answer the question directly, I will tell you a personal story about how I dealt with a small tragedy in my life about 8 years ago.

I fully realize that every “tragedy” is a bit different and some look way larger than others. Please don’t think I am trying to compare a death of a cat to a diagnosis of terminal cancer.

One size does not fit all tragic situations, that is for certain. But I hope this story can be of value to some of you.

The Story…

I had a cat for 12 years who became my best friend. His name was “Handsome Stranger”.

His company became even more important to me when my wife of 25 years left me.

About a year after she left Handsome fell into very bad health. He got multiple infections and the antibiotics couldn’t bring him out of it.

Every day he got sicker and sicker. He reached the point that he couldn’t even eat anymore. My heart was broken.

Yet he would pretend to eat because he knew I was watching. He saw how much I wanted him to be his old healthy self that he refused to let me see how bad he was.

His health was a one way street leading downhill fast. He would crawl where I couldn’t find him to hide his condition from me. To protect me from the pain he saw in my face when I saw him in his condition.

I knew what I had to do.

As I drove him to the vet for his final injection I told him stories all the way of all the great times we had together. Between the tears (which I tried so hard to hide from him) I laughed and joked with him.

I didn’t want him to see how much I was hurting anymore than he wanted me to see him hurting…

The Vet assistant was an angel. As she made that injection she made sure the last thing he heard was that “You are the best kitty ever”.

I will never forget the look of gratitude in his eyes as he glanced my direction for the very last time. He was in such pain and now it was finally over – once and for all.

That look removed all my guilt.

As soon as I got home from that visit to the vet I realized that there are many ways I could remember my best buddy.

So I worked on a poem – like a child would. A silly child like poem that would always be available to me whenever I thought of Handsome.

That poem helped me to extract the bits of joy from this painful incident.

And when I remember Handsome – I always smile and remember the joy he brought to my life – not the pain of that last day.

(Well OK I admit did shed a few tears detailing this in my blog today)

Here it is….

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simpler Steps.

Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps.

Handsome Stranger

The greatest animal I’ve known
has passed into the great unknown

I miss my pal so awfully much
I’ve lost the one I loved to touch

The feel of his fur, the deafening purr
are memories that will endure

His friendly mew, his charming ways
would brighten up the darkest days

When I would cry, he was right there
to share the wisdom in his stare

He was so wise, so all complete
he never would admit defeat

His soul shined such a wondrous light
it kept me warm through countless nights

“No soul in cats!” that’s what folks say
but I see things another way

I say that God is in those eyes
the cat is just a great disguise

A messenger from heaven above
a teacher of the ways of Love

“You must make time for fun today”
is what your cat will always say

Sit in the sun and have a ball
I do it, even though I’m small

Take time to rest, then run and play
and cuddle up at the end of the day

Be close… heck I’ll sit in your lap
Forget about the useless crap

For life is short, with too few years
to be sad and full of fears

It’s what God wanted us to see
so She made cats for you and me

Joy and Delight

Ed Osworth
The Joy Professor

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Another Must See Joyous Video – The Numbers Movie

Saturday, September 20th, 2008

Dr Mani lead me to a movie today that, although aimed specifically at women – will bring joy to anyone in spades. It is exactly what my book teaches

It’s nly 3 mnutes long and is called “The Numbers Movie” – take a look.

Click here to see “The Numbers Movie”

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Wonderful Video – I Choose Love

Tuesday, September 16th, 2008

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Unstoppable Joy! Available for Kindle on Amazon!

Wednesday, September 10th, 2008

While waiting for the printed verson to show up on Amazon and Barnes and Noble I paid a programmer back east to convert Unstoppable Joy! from the print ready PDF files to a version for Amazon’s new digital book reader the Kindle.

Unstoppable Joy! on Amazon

Unstoppable Joy! on Amazon

The conversion was quite tricky.

I had put the conversion job up for bid at rent-a- coder and elance and had very few takers. Two programmers who started gave up.

The Kindle is brand new and has many quirks in the way it displays text, fonts and images. Getting a book to look right for the Kindle is an exercise in both programming and patience.

But patience paid off.

For the first time when folks search for Unstoppable Joy! at Amazon – they are taken to the Kindle version.

For an author – that is when it Really feels like a book – when it shows up on Amazon!

The print version will be up shortly but due to a upload glitch at selfpublishing.com the process has been delayed by about 5 weeks. Unfortunately I wasn’t made aware of the glitch till last week.

So for all you self publishers – prepare for the unexpected – I have seen a ton of it publishing this book. But it has all been more than worth the effort.

Click here for the link to the Kindle version of Unstoppable Joy! A Happier You in 12 Simple Steps on Amazon.com

BTW: Authors, the programmer who did the conversion calls his business Factory-H and can be visited if you click here. Highly recommended!

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How to Help Me Get Unstoppable Joy! on Oprah

Tuesday, September 9th, 2008

If you are gonna dream…dream big!

One of my big dreams right now is the day I get to inform folks about the beauty of Unstoppable Joy! from the stage on the Oprah show. I know that day is coming and with your help it can come even faster. Oprah is famous for listening to her viewer feedback and actually has a page on her site where folks can suggest topics and interviews for future shows.

If you would like to help get Unstoppable Joy! noticed on Oprah click on the below link and suggest that they interview me about it.

Click here to go to the “suggest a topic” page at oprah.com

I treally appreciate your assistance in this. Together we can make millions happier.

All the Best

Ed Osworth
The Joy Professor

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Unstoppable Joy! at Eugene Oregon Saturday Market

Thursday, September 4th, 2008

I have just een approved to sell Unstoppable Joy! at the world famous Eugene Saturday Market. It is the longest running Saturday market in the country and a whole lot of fun.

It’s in a way kind of a miniature of the famous “Oregon Country Fair” in Veneta – many of the same vendors show at both venues.

So if you ar in the area and would like to meet – stop on by. It’s located smack in the middle of downtown Eugene.

Joy and Abundance
Ed Osworth

The Joy Professor

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